You’ve got (BIG) dreams. You’ve got (LITTLE) people.
It’s time to step into your BOSSed-MOM-LIFE!
I see you Mama:
Doing all the things and feeling like you’re getting nothing done
You go to bed at night exhausted yet restless because the things you WANT and NEED to do to move your business forward are still hovering
And after so many under-your-breath-muttered “go the fuck to sleep”s, you know those inspiring podcasts are fated to remain on your cluttered to-do-lists.
You feel guilty for not being more present with your kids, for not having more freaking fun, AND for wanting more time to yourself
You feel resentful for pouring everyone’s cup, leaving your own empty
Rushing rushing rushing when all you want to do is SLOW. The F. Down.
Feeling like if you only had more time? Or energy?
(wait is this some chicken and egg conundrum?)
You’re dynamic, determined, big-hearted, brilliant
But also: tired, frustrated, resentful
BECAUSE (oh yeah there’s more!) –
not only do you have human babies, you also have a biz baby – one that you’re damn proud of and committed to nurturing and growing.
But this babe? While not nuzzled to your boob, it too sucks you dry and leaves you restless.
What’s more – it brings up ALL the doubts and all the fears.
(But hear this: also all the things you need to learn to grow into the person you know you’re meant to be!)
“Being a mother is learning about strengths you didn’t know you had and dealing with fears you didn’t know existed.” – Linda Wooten
(go ahead and sub ‘entrepreneur’ for ‘mother’: BAM!)
Put the two together – entrepreneurship and motherhood — and DOUBLE BAM!!
I’ll tell you: nowhere is personal growth more potent than in motherhood AND entrepreneurship.
Let’s be real… The mompreneur juggle is REAL.
(husband baby anyone?)
Oh and ourselves? (funny/not funny how this gets lost in the equation)
How the fuck do we show up fully, powerfully, impactfully – for all of it?
With so many balls in the air, you’re flailing.
You feel misdirected, unfocused, un-inspired.
(Not to mention guilty, resentful, TIRED!)
How do you stay motivated?
How do you keep the course?
How do you shush those damn limiting beliefs that keep you from really going for it?
How do you show up FULLY, authentically, joyfully — for ALL the “babies” in your life when you secretly just want to lock yourself in the bathroom (with chocolate; or wine)?
How do you know what to do when your time is so freaking limited?
I’ll tell ya: balance is a fallacy
All things being equal, things aren’t fucking equal.
(We are invariably mothers first, business second.)
We’re told to do more
We’re told to do less
Manage your time
Manage your energy
Feel the fear and do it anyway
Feel the fear and let it fuel you
It’s a frigging clusterfuck.
Am I right?
And yet all of the above is true.
One is always in relationship with another.
Because life (like motherhood and entrepreneurship) is not neatly compartmentalized: it’s messy and dynamic and squishy (kinda like kids!)
Our ability to contain paradox and to reconcile oppositions – this is our greatest super-power.
Finding YOUR personal individualized FLOW state is so possible, so expansive, so empowering, so joyful.
But getting there will require that we dig deep and reframe – not only our answers – but our questions also.
If the measure of a meaningful life is directly related to the questions we ask, it’s time to ask better (different) questions.
* What if it’s not about being balanced but about being whole?
* What if it’s not about time-outs but about time-ins?
* What if it’s not about me-time but connection-time?
We need to reframe the questions in order to reframe our answers (and truly transform our effing lives!)
Over the course of personalized 1:1 sessions…
I will re-frame the questions so that YOU, mama, can choose to reframe YOUR answers.
Through robust mindset work and a combination of stretching (read: gentle butt-kicking) and nurturing space-holding —
You will find your heart open up and fill with JOY as you lean in to your kiddos. Yes, tantrums and all.
You will discover ways to nourish yourself when you’re in the thick of it, not only in that isolated 45 min mani/pedi.
And that biz babe?
Ah! Imagine feeling UNSTOPPABLE in your pursuit of impact and income.
Your fear? It fucking fuels you
Your doubts? Ha: left in the dust, trailing behind your unfaltering BELIEF.
Your energy? HIGH-freaking-VIBE!!
Your time? You effing own it
I will help you do the hard thing: while letting it be easy.
Here’s the thing: motherhood and business building needn’t be competing (and depleting) forces. They CAN inform and bolster one another once we start shifting our perspectives, reframing our thoughts, and opening up the spaces between…
- You surprise your kids with an outing to your favorite waffle brunch spot because you just stepped it up in your business and you feel like celebrating!
- You move through your days with ease and purpose because you know what to do and when to do it
- You’re actually excited and motivated to do the hard things that will move your business forward.
- You no longer feel the need to add more hours to your day because you’re adding more YOU to your day
Does it feel like if you have to show up for one more thing you will collapse?
Here’s the (#backward) secret: the more we show up, the fuller we become, the more we expand.
Ready to ROCK your biz and DANCE through motherhood (no lie, I will make you shimmy that groove thang!)?
Let’s do this. It’s time to create success BECAUSE you’re a mom, not in spite of.
What you’ll get:
– Personalized High-Touch 1:1 Coaching so that you can shift those beliefs and step into your #unstoppable power AND presence (because power alone is ineffectual if it’s not aligned and serving our deepest core values)
– Access to me via Messenger in between sessions so that you can process the shifts and feel supported in real-time
– 2 PDFs (exercises and affirmations) to ground you and empower you so that you can return to the tools and the exercises anytime you need a “boost”
Bonus: Dance your way to empowerment session so that you can fully embody your sexy radiant boss-power.
I have four kids; ‘nuff said.
It would hardly be a stretch to say that I have spent the last 13 years developing my unique bent for finding the magic in the mess of motherhood.
It started with the intention of exploring what I wanted to teach my children; it gave way to the wondrous discovery of what I am able to learn from my children.
It started with a pledge to talk unflinchingly about the messy and the hard; it gave way to an uncovering of the magical and the squishy.
I launched a successful product-based business on a #nap-time-hustle schedule. Since pivoting to coaching, I have continued to grow and develop my business with less hours, and more ease.
I am the creator of the Mini-Mompreneur-Musings series, designed to empower moms to grow their business when time is not on their side, as well as the REAL-MOM-TALK show – where I dish out genuine and authentic real talk – exploring and reimagining all things #momlife.
On the daily, I am lit up by the band of brave bold badass big-hearted mamas in the Lean in Mama community that I have the joy of cultivating and facilitating.
Ultimately, I am passionate about helping moms go from autopilot to intentional without having to ditch their kids and commit themselves to the hospital – for a vacation.
As a coach, speaker, writer, and retreat facilitator, I play with intersections of poetry, psychology, and embodied emotional release work.